All That Glitters…

This is going to be the first of many jewelry posts, I can’t believe it has taken me this long to post on one of my favorite topics. I’m sort of an accessory, particularly jewelry, junkie. I rarely even think about it, but I have five pieces of jewelry that never leave my body including when I sleep.

The ring I wear on my right hand I bought for myself on Cumberland Island, a little island off the coast of Georgia where one of my closest friends and her family have houses. Her cousin Go Go is an amazing jewelry designer, and I love to wear my rattlesnake rib ring because it’s beautiful and organic and it reminds me of the great times I’ve spent on Cumberland with my friends, so it makes me happy whenever I look at it.

This bracelet hasn’t left my wrist since my fiancé got it for me at C’est Magnifique in April. It is one of the most interesting jewelry stores in New York, if you want something different go check it out. It has been there forever, I used to go with my mom when I was a kid. The original owner was sadly murdered, and now it is run by his nephew who is incredibly nice. He believes certain pieces should be with certain people, and while that might seem strange for some, I think it’s kind of great. If he doesn’t think it’s right for you and that you’ll appreciate it, he doesn’t want you to walk out of there with it. I fell in love with this southwestern silver bracelet instantly, and he gave it to us for a great price!

This necklace was given to me by my sister, it’s from etsy, and it’s a sloth. She and my mom like to tease me that the sloth is my spirit guide since sleeping is still one of my favorite activities. It’s very comfy to wear and although I love necklaces and change them often, I wear this one as my stand-by and then switch it off for others when I feel like it.

Obviously the most symbolic thing I wear is my engagement ring on my left hand, which was my mother’s (she wears her mother’s ring now) and my father had it custom made for her. I like that it isn’t a huge rock, it makes it more comfortable to wear, and I love the setting. Plus the jeweler who made it for my dad engraved his initials JP on the inside, and I’m Justine Patrice, what a happy coincidence!

Though I’ve been made fun of for it, I also wear a toe ring, I just like it, not sure why. This picture is kind of gross, eww feet—sorry!

Oh wait, I have an earring in my cartilage too, I’ve had it since high school and always forget it’s there.

It’s interesting that most of us, including men, wear some form of jewelry on our bodies most of the time, more than any other piece of clothing or beauty product, these accessories sometimes have deep meaning to us.

A lot of people wear engagement and wedding rings everyday as a reminder of the relationship that they’re committed to and a symbol that links them back to another person, but any piece of jewelry from someone you love can act as a reminder of them. Sometimes the meaning that jewelry carries can be painful too, like when it’s from an ex.

Crosses, stars of David, Udjats, jade coins, every culture has at least one if not many talismans or amulets that are worn as jewelry and meant to protect against evil or act as a sign of good luck. The human connection to jewelry is ancient, the oldest piece of jewelry is 100,00 years old and comes in the form of beads made from seashells. In many societies jewelry signifies wealth, and it is still one of the best investments you can make. If you buy a beautiful piece of jewelry, it will retain its value far longer than other items you may invest in.

There really is no limit to where you can adorn your body with jewels, but it seems that many people have a favorite. Some love earrings and would choose a pair of gorgeous white gold hoops over a strand of pearls any day. There are women (and men too) who just don’t feel right leaving the house without a ring on their fingers, or a bracelet on their wrist, or a locket around their necks, it’s a very personal thing. My sister favors big dangling earrings, while my mother wears a wrist full of bangles that jangle when she walks, and I personally love long necklaces and post earrings (which are also a favorite of my grandmother).

Some jewelry just feels right when you wear it, and it should. Jewelry can make you feel beautiful, it can make you feel connected to someone, and it can even make you feel safe. I still have a bracelet that my mother used to put on me or my sister when one of us was having a nightmare, she called it the “dream bracelet”, and honestly, when I put it on, I felt safer, it really was magic.

When I first meet someone one of the first things I notice is their jewelry, whether it’s a pinky ring on a man, or a pin on a woman’s coat, I always feel it says so much about them. When you compliment someone on a bag or a scarf, sometimes they might say “oh, it was my mother’s”, but usually it’s just an accessory. With jewelry, so often when you compliment it, or ask about it, there is a story that a person can tell you about it, even if it’s just to say that it came from a cool flea market, but sometimes you get some really great stories.

I have a watch necklace that was given to my great-grandmother Rose by a boy who proposed to her when she was young, unfortunately her parents wouldn’t let her marry him. He engraved her initials onto the back of the watch himself, and it always makes me so sad for him when I wear it, but I love that there is a story behind it, and I love that my grandmother always kept it.

Whether it was a friendship bracelet given to you in summer camp, or a family heirloom passed down for generations, I think all of us have been touched by jewelry at some point, and that’s something you can’t say for many other accessories or beauty products.

What about all of you? Do you have pieces that never leave your body? Do you wear a different “statement piece” everyday? What does the jewelry you wear remind you of or make you feel?


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16 responses to “All That Glitters…

  1. haren

    I love jewelry.

  2. Megan

    I still wear a toe ring too. I think it is actually my most consistent piece of jewelry. I’ve been wearing it pretty much non-stop for at least 15 years.

  3. Love this post. And I love seeing your jewelry. The engagement ring is perfect, and it’s awesome that it has history.

    I’ve never been able to get into the habit of wearing jewelry, and I’ve always wanted to. I’ve always thought it required a lot of a very specific type of confidence. I don’t quite know how to explain it. But something to do with being comfortable with your body in a way that I wasn’t always comfortable. My engagement ring is the only piece of jewelry I wear with any regularity.

    But maybe one day….

    • Thanks Kate! For me jewelry always made me feel more confident, sometimes I even think that it draws attention away from flaws. Sometimes it’s fun just to put some on and see how it makes you feel. And with jewelry, unlike clothes or makeup, it’s really easy to just take off and slip in your purse if you decide you don’t like it!

  4. Kristen

    Where to begin? I have my absolute favorite love knot gold post earrings from Italy. The posts were made extra long for me cos I have chubby earlobes. I think I got them when I was about 12 yrs old. I also have a snake ring (in a bank safety deposit box). Gotta get it out and wear it. Italians seem to think snakes are lucky because many ital women I know have a snake coiled around their finger. I could go on, but won’t!

    • Kristen, you have to take that snake ring out of the safety deposit box and show that baby off, it sounds great! I had a snake ring I wore all the time in high school and I loved it!

  5. oh that sloth necklace is adorable 🙂

    I always wear a mix of jewelry. Nothing too meaningful on my end, just stuff that I spend a little extra on with my own money from my fav designers..that kind of makes it sentimental to me. Also I’ve had my nose pierced since college. I should let that go but I haven’t yet! haha!

    • I think that jewelry you have saved up to buy yourself is always really special! I have a pair of earrings from “made her think” that I bought as a birthday gift for myself, and I felt so extravagant, but it also feels independent!

  6. Carmela

    The one piece of jewelry that never leaves my body is the diamond ring I got for my 25th wedding anniversary. I love it! I always try to remember to put on earrings or a necklace, but don’t always remember. I have to get it ready the night before to go with an outfit. I love your sloth necklace!

    • Thanks Carmela! I know, sometimes it’s so hard to remember to even put it on, I guess that’s why I never take it off! I always feel naked if I leave the house without earrings though.

  7. Kathy

    I agree!! I feel naked without my jewelery! My engagement and wedding rings are both family heirlooms, so they are truly extra special. I look at them and remember the strong women who came before me!

  8. Wilberthe

    I always, always have on a gold necklace that my mother bought for me several years ago; the chain is very nice but it’s really the charm on the necklace that means a lot to me: a gold cirlcle with a picture of an angel on it. It’s very simple, but I’ve had it literally since I was a baby and I’ve always kind of thought of the picture as a guardian angel. Also, I always have a gold ring on my right hand that used to be my grandmother’s.
    But my favorite jewelery pieces are the ones I wear in my stretched earlobes, since they remind me of my patience and individuality :]

    • I love the way that jewelry can carry such significance, it’s also kind of amazing when you realize that a piece of jewelry has become practically part of your body isn’t it?

  9. loved the necklace, its design is so have great accessories…

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